We all got em’. Some people ONLY like and go for a certain type/look when it comes to their potential mate. I think that is a bit silly–as long as there is an attraction–you should go for it, even if she isn’t the half Middle Eastern half Mediterranean Goddess you usually go for.
Much to my mother’s [and family's in general] chagrin I happen to prefer women–and my ideal type is a girl with “flavah”. Tallish, big curly hair, big personality, usually mixed, Latina, or black. I don’t know what it is. Some friends find it odd–but hey that’s what I like. It is, what I think- the complete opposite of me and makes things interesting. Who wants to look at a mirror image all day long? Bor-ring!
So many relationships–especially gay ones have a slight narcissistic quality to them. People dating others that can pass as their sisters/brothers. I’ve been guilty of it too but I have to say– the opposite does it for me. I just don’t know how many pop-locking supa fine ladies would find an Italian [-American] sarcastic dorky nerdy girl like myself to be their ideal type.
::raises eyebrows:: Any takers!?
So what’s your ideal type (not talking about personality for now–which is-by far- more important than looks when it comes partner choice anyway)?
Share with me. If you’d like.
im a sucker for an afro myself. and i feel like im in the same exact boat as you haha.
but we usually have the same taste anyways.
…ERRRRRykah badu anyone?!?!!? ok we KNOW this.
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“I know everyone says personality, but i’d have to go with breast size.” – Charlie (So I Married An Axe Murderer)
a certain type for me is such a gray area anymore. my friends would say differently claiming that i typically go for the effeminate, “indie” male because they’re “safe.” which, yes, may be true to a certain extent…but to be quite honest, i’m just sick of the never-ending processed cheese men. no matter what kind of pretty packaging they come in, they all taste the same and go bad at some point.
BUT if i had to pinpoint physical attributes that i look for in a person, it would have to start with a great smile. as cornball as it is, i love a big, white, semi-straight/straight tooth grin. followed up by some beautiful eyes, great hair (long or short…it’s all about personality here), long legs, nice arms and i’m set.
basically, i’m big on natural beauty and a personality that just accentuates that. generally your pretty-sarcastic-(fun)ny-italian (or as they say in western kansas “I-talian”)-artsy-fartsy willing to put up with my she-nanigans when left to my own devices. ;)
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well..hmm. i am tall dark and handsome.. if i do say so myself.
but i am always attracted to small girls. petite if you like. there is something about a small girl that drives me crazy…
and no its not because my penis would look huge in a small girls hand either..or that i think.. oh im gonna break her in half.
maybe its the feeling of throwing her down on the bed?
either way.. tall girls…6’2 gotta go
type… hrmm
well i fink that i dont have a specific type
but some built like me (perfect)
a lil taller than me .. nice eyes .. as dorkish as i .. great sense of humor .. great smile .. and most of all someone who can put up with me .. yah .. im not picky LOL