When one’s actions towards you are loyal and consistent – it helps to build/maintain trust.
When one’s actions are disloyal and inconsistent – it succeeds in destroying trust. Without trust there is no stable foundation to your relationship, and eventually it will break apart no matter what other elements (passion, understanding, love) exist. Furthermore, when there’s no trust – there are no feelings of security & stability. Essential components in keeping things together.
I guess what I’m trying to say is – be honest, put pride aside, and value – truly value the people you love. Don’t just say you do. DO. If you’re in a relationship – focus on that relationship and connection, and don’t risk losing all of that with ego.
Unrelated but something else I thought about today – Why do people insist on keeping someone close without any intention of being with them? I see this a lot… Giving false hope and being manipulative. Is it because they want that person to always want them? Is it because they are afraid to truly ever let go, or more accurately – have that other person let go of them? Do they want them as a potential back-up plan? What is with all the games people play with one another…? Can’t people just be genuine for more than half a second? Why am I still up with a migraine at 2am?
I like this song:
Tags: carly sings, honesty, loyalty, red brick, relationships, richard walters
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